If you fall in love with love, buy it

She met him five years ago after being introduced. His shop closed later and he didn’t do anything. She runs a shop and has been supporting him financially. She paid for winter clothes, cotton shoes and hospitalization expenses when she was ill. She said she had a good character, but she couldn’t tell the specific content. She said he gave her warmth, for example, when it was cold, she would be told to add more clothes. In this way, until her shop was closed, the economy was no longer comfortable. He had been doing nothing and refused to help her open the store, so she felt deeply disappointed. Listening to her sadness, I took a deep breath and said: life always needs to be experienced before I can learn something. Maybe there are some blind spots that need to be seen clearly, so as to grow better, right? So I talked about my opinion. With romantic expectation, he fell in love with him willingly. In fact, we don’t know who we fall in love. We perfectly project our expectations to each other, romantically thinking that he is the person I am looking for and can satisfy everything I have. Just like looking at flowers in the fog, looking at the moon in the water, almost completely appreciating and depicting a shadow with their own images. And more often, we don’t want to wake up and face the real situation. And true love, one is to see clearly what you expect and desire; The other is to see what aspects you appreciate. Love and at least need some foundation, but it is unlikely to be utopian. Pay for him and buy off love. Even if you meet love, you need ways to get it. We say that love is mutual attraction, but it cannot be bought. In this world, nobody is the savior of anyone. We don’t need to save others. Ordinary people are not great enough to pay for others unconditionally, so being good to others is actually expected. Then this is what you want by buying. The other party didn’t buy it and didn’t appreciate it, so there was only sadness. I agree with this point of view, that is to say, love is the mutual satisfaction of each other’s needs, so we should be clear about what we need and what we can give to each other. Caring for each other is not vulgar, and it can make people happier than being pure and vanity love. Shake off the dust on your body, and there are still scenery on the journey. The girl said she chose to break up and did not regret it. Yes, no matter how beautiful love is, you can’t lose the support of life. This is probably the basis for her choice. I appreciate her growth. We don’t have to sigh for yesterday. We have experienced it before we understand it. As long as you live, there will be beauty. I seem to see a fruit forest, which is bearing dense fruits. I admire her decisiveness and courage very much and believe that there must be a better scenery in her journey.

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